Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Should a pregnant teenager who lives at home with parents who are financially stable keep the baby?
I definitely would suggest to tell your parents that you are pregnant. Because they can help you schedule doctors appointments through a reputable dr. also you need to get medical care while pregnant. Such as prenatal vitamins, sonograms to make sure the baby is growing fine and no health problems for you or the baby. I was 19 also when I had my first child and I thought it was the end of the world but tomorrow she turns four and she is one of the best things in my life I also have a 14 month old little girl and btw I am not with my oldest daughters father any more. My suggestion about whether you should keep the baby or put the baby up for adoption is solely up to you. You have to do what you feel is right for both yourself and the security of the child. If you feel that you can physically, emotionally, financial with help from parents for right now, keep the baby and take care of it I would say do it because when you bring a child in the world you truly know what unconditional love is besides the unconditional love of God. Look at the baby as a blessing from God.Yes a baby changes your life forever but it is the best feeling to know that you are living for someone other than yourself and that every time you accomplish something that you aren't just doing it to better yourself but you are also creating a better life for your child. You can do anything you set your mind to and being a single mommy is hard I have been there but by the grace of God I found my second husband and he is the best man in the world. I say go for it a keep the baby. BTW your parents may be upset for a little bit but trust me they will get over it and warm up to it, because when I got pregnant with my second daughter I was living with my grandparents because my parents are dead and also was still married to my first husband but was fighting for a divorce. But the first time they saw the sonograms they melted.
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